Common Grief Reactions
Physical | Emotional | Mental |
Fatigue | Sadness | Disbelief |
Lack of Empathy | Lonliness | Distraction |
Sympathy Pains | Anger | Absent-mindedness |
Hollowness in Stomach | Guilt | Forgetfulness |
Gut Sensations | Anxiety | Low Motivation |
Tightness in Chest | Shock | Dreaming of the loss |
Shortness of Breath | Yearning / Longing | Poor Concentration |
Dry Mouth | Relief | Preoccupation with the loss |
Increased Noise Sensitivity | Numbness | Images of the loss |
Pain | Deppression | Confusion |
Sleep Disturbances | “Grief Attacks” | Memories of other losses |
Appetite Disturbances | Fear | Lack of focus |
Restlesness | Helplessness | Denial |
Tension | Lack of COntrol | Disorientation |
Exhaustion | Insecurity | Apathy |
Resentment | Diminished Self-Concern | |
Shame | Sorrow | |
Betrayal / Disloyalty | ||
Emptiness |
Social | Behavioral | Spiritual |
Social Withdrawal | Searching | Questions about God |
Less desire to make conversation | Crying | Why would God allow this? |
Being single | Carrying special objects | How are they? |
Feeling a need to take care of others | VIsiting the grave site | Where are they now? |
Keeping an altar | When will I die? | |
Keeping belongings intact | Will I see them again when I die? | |
Looking at photos | ||
Listening to recordings | ||
Changing daily routine | ||
Avoidance of grief arousal |